Compassionate Companions in Life and Death


Compassionate Companions in Life & Death

Module One: August 24-28, 2009
Module Two: February 22-26, 2010
Module Three: August 23-27, 2010
Module Four: February 21-25, 2011
An official application for the 2009-2011 Apprenticeship will be sent January 2008.
Please be advised that all 4 of the Sacred Art of Living & Dying Units are required prior to acceptance in the Anamcara Apprenticeship.
And please visit our Calendar/Registration page for upcoming dates and locations if you still require these Units.

The Evolution of the Sacred Art of Living Center

Since 1998, Sacred Art of Living Center has evolved to meet the spiritual needs of many persons through a variety of workshops and programs.

Based on the vision of the founding directors, Richard and Mary Groves, a pivotal component of Sacred Art of Living Center’s mission statement is: “The Sacred Art of Living and Dying is a compelling teacher of life’s most important priorities.” More than 10,000 persons have participated in the Sacred Art of Living and Dying study units. Program participants include a wide range of health care professionals, educators, clergy, and the general public from around the world.

As graduates from the Sacred Art of Living and Dying series continue to make a positive impact on society’s culture regarding death and dying, there is an increased demand for creative ways to share the content of its program with new audiences. Students of the Sacred Art of Living and Dying consistently express a need to provide more opportunities for in-depth training in the tools and skills introduced at the program study units.

The directors and staff of the Sacred Art of Living Center have discerned that the focus for its next chapter of life is a deeper and expanded development of the Sacred Art of Living and Dying mission because we believe that:
  • Sacred Art of Living Center is in a unique position to provide national leadership in the training, certification and delivery of spiritual caregiving at the end of life.
  • The coincidence of the release of Richard Groves' book, The American Book of Dying: Lessons in Healing Spiritual Pain provides a special window of opportunity for national exposure to the teachings of the Sacred Art of Living and Dying.
  • There is no comparable organization or movement in the English-speaking world addressing spirituality in end-of-life care from a holistic and inter-faith approach.

To summarize, “We believe that Sacred Art of Living and Dying is the work which Sacred Art of Living Center ‘has been given to do’”.

Consequently, the principal energy and resources of Sacred Art of Living Center will now be dedicated to the development and implementation of The Anamcara Project. All other programs provided by the Sacred Art of Living Center will be in direct service to the training and on-going support of anamcara.

History of the Anamcara

Ancient Lineage - Anamcara (pronounced ahn-im-KAHR-uh) is an old Gaelic word meaning “soul friend.” In ancient times the Celts created the role of Anamcara as a life counselor and spiritual guide. By the 6th century AD, Christian women and men continued to develop the anamcara tradition inherited from their Druid ancestors. For centuries these anamcara became mentors and companions to persons from all walks of life who yearned for a deeper relationship with the Divine. As the legendary Brigit of Ireland wrote, “Anyone without an anamcara is like a body without a head.”

Spiritual Midwives - By the year 1000, Irish anamcara extended their influence throughout the mainland of Europe, especially among the newly established hospices. Anamcara earned a reputation for their extraordinary skills as spiritual midwives to the dying, especially in diagnosing and relieving spiritual pain. The earliest Western hospice tradition called the ars moriendi or sacred art of dying owes much to the spiritual legacy of the anamcara.

Universal Spirituality - We admire these extraordinary soul friends who brought peace and comfort to countless generations of our ancestors, regardless of culture, social status or religious belief. It is worth noting that centuries ago - when intolerance was the norm - Jews, Christians, and Muslims co-collaborated to apply the wisdom of the anamcara in caring for persons at the end of life. Part of the genius of the anamcara tradition is that one does not have to be Celtic or subscribe to any particular spiritual practice to benefit from its wisdom. The insights of this great tradition transcend - yet respect - culture and spirituality.

Living Tradition - Anamcara represent a refreshing option to “assembly line spirituality” and the alienating and depersonalizing tendencies in modern society. The soul-friend is not interested in immediate results, but commits to be unconditionally present for the needs their companion. Anamcara do not offer easy answers or a quick fix to spiritual suffering. Instead, these spiritual coaches provide a mirror back to their companions in hopes of nurturing a deeper relationship with the Great Mystery.

The Modern Anamcara

Why Today?

Today’s anamcara stands on the shoulders of a great tradition. Our generation is experiencing a renaissance in the world's great contemplative traditions including Celtic spirituality. There is a renewed interest to apply the wisdom of our ancestors for today’s needs. In a pluralistic society there can be many ways to offer this unique kind of spiritual support for persons who are in a state of change or crisis.

Job Description

The anamcara traditionally had dual yet inter-related roles:

To offer one-on-one support using the classical tools of spiritual discernment.
In our days more and more people are seeking assistance from those who are a few steps ahead on their spiritual journey. The anamcara is a true soul friend who honors the uniqueness of each person’s path. The role of spiritual director or companion reflects a similar tradition.

For many people a religious belief system provides guidance when encountering “dark nights of the soul.” The anamcara builds on and never competes with a person’s faith tradition. For some persons, spirituality is experienced outside of an institutional structure, but it is nonetheless a key for providing meaning and direction in life. The anamcara is trained to offer support that is tailored to each individual’s needs - free from personal agenda.

To be available as a spiritual midwife for the dying.

The anamcara tradition has always been associated with end-of-life care. Modern medicine has eliminated much of the physical pain associated with the dying process, but our ancestors also had access to a rich heritage of practical tools to address the unique kinds of emotional and spiritual distress that show up at the end of life.

The anamcara is trained to know how to apply the “wisdom of the ages,” both to complement the professional health caregiver and support the needs of each individual. Because the anamcara believes that death is not an end but an opening to another state of awareness, there are unparalleled opportunities for healing and hope at the end of life.

Creative Presence

Traditionally the two roles of the anamcara were interconnected: in other words, a soul-friend relationship often spanned a person’s lifetime. Most people today find themselves at the end of life without a previous relationship with a spiritual companion. As this tradition renews itself in our times, there are creative possibilities for introducing an anamcara throughout the cycles of living and dying.

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Four Spiritual Foundations For Anamcara

The Anamcara Project upholds the following time-tested criteria for persons who are serious about becoming anamcara practitioners. True to its lineage, the Sacred Art of Living Center is as interested in the personal and spiritual development of anamcara as in theory and skills.

Soulfulness - The spirituality that undergirds the work of anamcara is rooted in the common language of the world’s great mystical traditions. Mysticism is a universal approach to Mystery that both respects the wisdom of the ages but also requires people to trust their own experience. A principal requirement for anamcara is the commitment to some form of daily contemplative practice. All spiritual traditions teach that quiet listening enables us to better understand the working of Spirit in our own lives before attempting to guide others.

Community - Historically the anamcara was never a sole practitioner but remained connected to a community of spiritual support and on-going formation. The Sacred Art of Living Center, founder and sponsor of the Sacred Art of Living and Dying series, is committed to providing a venue of continuing education and mentorship for anamcara practitioners. Although its offices and staff are physically located in Bend, Oregon, The Anamcara Project is a virtual international community of prayer and network of support for the vital work of anamcara in our day.

Skillfullness - The anamcara tradition has a powerful reputation because of the tools which our ancestors tested over centuries of experience. The Sacred Art of Living and Dying series teaches only those skills that are validated by contemporary psychology and, wherever possible, supported by medical research. The Anamcara tradition never imposes a standardized solution to spiritual suffering. Instead, The Anamcara Project teaches basic principles that anyone can access in providing individualized support and guidance. All program tracks offer historical foundation and theory for anamcara practitioners-as well as opportunities for supervised, hands-on practice.

Mentorship - No two sets of soul-friends look alike; however, all anamcara practitioners are required to maintain an on-going relationship with a mentor-supervisor. A commitment to continuing spiritual formation and regular opportunities for supervision are the key to a fruitful and ethical anamcara practice. The Sacred Art of Living and Dying program will be an on-going laboratory for applying the anamcara tradition in a variety of formal and informal settings. Mentors will coach, challenge and encourage anamcara as they apply this tradition to real-life situations.

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Becoming an Anamcara

Drawing on the wisdom of our ancestors, Sacred Art of Living Center has developed The Anamcara Project. Two distinct but interrelated program series mirror the dual role of the traditional Anamcara: the sacred art of living and the sacred art of dying.

Sacred Art of Living - Sacred Art of Living Center offers education and training in the classical spiritual tradition of action and contemplation. Three areas of study that connect spirituality and everyday life include:

Sacred Art of Living and Dying - Anyone, regardless of profession, spiritual background, or previous experience is welcome to participate in the core study units offered through the Sacred Art of Living and Dying series. For persons called to support others on their spiritual journey at the end of life, two additional levels of training and supervision invite persons to become Anamcara end-of-life practitioners. All levels of the Sacred Art of Living and Dying series teach practical skills based on the time-tested lessons of history-but applied practically to today’s audience and needs. The Sacred Art of Living and Dying is also based on the ancient wisdom that, for all of the support an Anamcara may provide, it is the dying who become their teachers at the end of life.

Spiritual Practice - Soul friendship is ultimately rooted in spiritual practice rather than a profession or institutional ministry. In other words, there is no formal governing body or accreditation for licensing Anamcara. Traditionally Anamcara were mentored by elders whom the community recognized as possessing special gifts of spiritual discernment. Anamcara are called to be life-long students of the Inner Life and companions of the Inner Journey for others.

Standards for Practitioners - Based on twenty-five years of training and experience in end-of-life care, Sacred Art of Living Center has established baseline standards for the education and practice of today’s Anamcara. In addition to learning about the history, skills and challenges of this work, The Anamcara Project offers more intensive levels of practical training and mentorship. Not everyone who participates in Sacred Art of Dying programs is necessarily interested in the formal designation of Anamcara. However, all participants in a Sacred Art of Dying course will be invited to appropriately apply Anamcara practices within their life circumstances.

Explore Sacred Art of Living Center programs and retreats on the web, or contact us directly for more information.

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Stage of Formation

Following the classical pattern of formation, a person interested in the anamcara tradition can choose to be involved in three levels of education and training.

Student Anamcara: Core Education

Four study units provide the historical and theoretical foundation for the Anamcara:

  • Unit I: Understanding Spiritual Pain
  • Unit II: Diagnosing Spiritual Pain
  • Unit III: Healing Spiritual Pain
  • Unit IV: Transforming Spiritual Pain

Each unit is a workshop-retreat that offers an ideal way to introduce the general public, the incidental caregiver, and the health care professional to the anamcara tradition. While there is an advantage to taking these education units in sequence, anyone is welcome to participate in the parts and order of the series that they find helpful.

Apprentice Anamcara: Practical Skills

The Anamcara Project includes an apprenticeship program that offers intensive Training Modules corresponding to each of the core study units. Modules provide a supervised, hands-on experience of the most frequently-used anamcara tools. Participants deepen and apply the time-tested skills of the anamcara tradition under the mentorship of nationally renowned anamcara instructor. The Anamcara Apprentice enters into a discernment process to create a real-life Practicum Project for the application of tools from the anamcara tradition.
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In depth Apprenticeship Workshop Modules include:
  • Creating Ritual and Sacred Space
  • Respecting Ethnic, Cultural and Spiritual traditions at the end of life
  • Understanding the Masculine and Feminine aspects of Grief
  • Becoming more fluent in Coma Communication
  • Interpreting the Healing Power of Dreams
  • Taking Guided Imagery to a deeper spiritual level
  • Working with Music Therapy as a spiritual practice
  • Exploring how Energy Work can heal body, mind and spirit
  • Experiencing the Creative Arts as a means of transformation
  • Prescribing antidotes for different aspects of Spiritual Pain


Master Anamcara: Lifelong Mentorship

Sacred Art of Living Center invites graduates from the Sacred Art of Living and Dying Apprenticeship series to become anamcara practitioners in a more structured and supervised application of the tradition. The Anamcara Project assists in the creation of appropriate venues for anamcara practitioners as well as on-going mentorship and supervision. Sacred Art of Living Center will bestow the designation of anamcara only on persons who have fulfilled the requirements of the Master Anamcara track or its equivalent.

Areas of specialization for anamcara practitioners include but are not limited to:

  • Health Care Residency Programs
  • Faith Community Ministries
  • Sacred Art of Living and Dying in the Community, School and Workplace

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Frequenty Asked Questions

What does the word “Anamcara” mean?
Anamcara (pronounced ahn-im-KAHR-uh) is an old Gaelic word meaning “soul friend.” In ancient times the Celts created the role of anamcara as a life counselor and spiritual guide. For centuries these anamcara became mentors and companions to persons from all walks of life who yearned for a deeper relationship with the Divine.

What does this program prepare one to do?
First and foremost to be a genuine human being who is interested in walking the spiritual journey with another person. The anamcara training is challenging in its approach to the dynamics of human relationships and the spiritual life. Certain skills and spiritual ‘tools’ are taught and applied under the supervision of trained mentors. The ancamcara is expected to cultivate and be faithful to a regular contemplative spiritual practice. Finally, the modern anamcara, reflecting the wisdom of our ancestors, is called to be a special friend to the dying. While not expected to be a health care or hospice professional, the anamcara must demonstrate the capacity to be an advocate and soul-friend, particularly at the end of life.

Why is this called a “project”?
Because it is just that! For centuries Westerners have had few models for this important spiritual work. The ancient yet relevant anamcara lineage will have to be re-created even as we are “forming ourselves” into this tradition. Sacred Art of Living Center has already invested many years of wisdom, experience, energy, resources, and discernment in proposing this venture. The interest and hunger for its practical application confirms our inner knowing – that the time is ripe for this work!

Who sponsors this program?
The Sacred Art of Living Center for Spiritual Formation is the sole sponsor of The Anamcara Project

Who teaches the courses in the Anamcara Project?
The teachers for the Core Education Units [known as the Sacred Art of Living and Dying] are Richard and Mary Groves, founding directors of Sacred Art of Living Center. The teachers for the Anamcara Training Modules will be pulled from the ranks of notable mentors/teachers from around the world. Instructors include a wide range of disciplines, cultural backgrounds and spiritual traditions. These and many other nationally recognized teachers and trainers are anxious to see this Project launched.

Is the Anamcara Project affiliated with any specific faith tradition?
True to its mission and philosophy, Sacred Art of Living Center seeks to create common ground between all spiritual traditions. Our work is intrinsically inter-cultural and inter-faith in nature. Students who have attended courses offered by Sacred Art of Living Center over the years have also discovered that, as we include and learn from all sincere seekers, we also draw in a particular way from the history and roots of the Center's own Judeo-Christian heritage. This is always done in a way that is respectful, non-exclusive and non-proselytizing.

Can the Core Education Units [Sacred Art of Dying] be taken in any order?
While there is some advantage to taking the education units in sequence, anyone is welcome to participate in the parts and order of the series that they find helpful.

Can anyone participate in the Core Education Units without committing to the entire anamcara training program?
Yes, we strongly encourage any interested person to attend any of the educational units as a student of the sacred art of living and dying. Participants will gain much in terms of understanding the nature of the spiritual journey and how it relates to real life situations.

How does one become an Anamcara Apprentice?
By enrolling in the Practical Skills Modules offered by the Sacred Art of Living Center. You can register online here.

What are the prerequisites for taking a Practical Skills Module?
In order to enroll in a Practical Skills Module, you must have taken the corresponding Core Education Unit. For example, in order to take Practical Skills Module I: “Tools for Understanding Spiritual Pain,” you must have previously taken Core Education Unit I: “Understanding Spiritual Pain.”

Do I have to take all of the Core Education Units prior to taking a Practical Skills Module?
Not necessarily. You need only have taken the Core Education Unit corresponding to that Practical Skills Module. For example, once you take Core Education Unit I: “Understanding Spiritual Pain,” you may then take Practical Skills Module I: “Tools for Understanding Spiritual Pain.” If we have more applicants than space, however, persons who have taken all four of the Sacred Art of Dying units will have priority.

When will the Practical Skills Modules be offered?
Practical Skills Module I: “Tools for Understanding Spiritual Pain,” will be offered August 21-25, 2006. Subsequent modules will be offered every six months: Module II will be February 26 - March 2, 2007, Module III August 20-24, 2007, and Module IV February 25-29, 2008. The plan is for each specific module to take place on two-year cycles; e.g., Practical Skills Module I will first be offered in August 2006, and then next in August 2008. See the program calendar for specific details.

Where will the Practical Skills Modules be held?
Practical Skills Modules will be held at Eagle Crest Resort near Sacred Art of Living Center’s home in Bend, Oregon. We are considering extending the modules to additional distant learning locations (for example, using audio/video uplinks), but there are many practical considerations prior to taking such a step.

How will attendance be limited in the Practical Skills Module?
Due to the nature of the Practical Skills Modules and the importance of the small groups to the process [known in the Celtic tradition as ‘Celi De’] attendance will necessarily be limited. The exact number has not yet been determined, but we are working with an estimated capacity of 150 participants per module.

How will you determine who can attend the Practical Skills Modules?
At this point, we are accepting registrants into the Practical Skills Modules. An application process is required.

Will there be a formal application process?
Yes. Refer to the Application for Anamcara Apprentices.

If I don't sign up for the first Anamcara Training Module in August 2006, can I register for a later module?
No. The Anamcara Apprenticeship is a two year process. The next program cycle will begin in Summer 2008.

What will apprentices be required to do in addition to attending the Practical Skills Modules?
Anamcara Apprentices will be required to develop a real-life practicum project in order to apply the skills and lessons of the sacred art of living and dying in their profession, community or faith tradition. Apprentices will work as small communities and under the supervision of a trained Anamcara Supervisor.

What constitutes a Pilot Site for the Anamcara Project?
Some apprentices may work in officially designated Pilot Sites for the Anamcara Project. Official sites agree to meet the criteria established for the Anamcara Project including an enhanced supervision program. (See Pilot Sites for more details.)

What will be the process for choosing Program Animators, mentioned in other Anamcara Project documents?
We know that completion of all four Sacred Art of Living and Dying Core Education units is a criterion, as well as experience in working with dying and/or grief as well as other personal and professional considerations.

What are the responsibilities for being a Program Animator?
The responsibilities will involve additional training provided through Sacred Art of Living Center, and then working with a small group of student apprentices known as a ‘Celi De’ -- towards the development and completion of a practicum project that will both enhance their learning and deepen the Center’s body of knowledge. Program Animators will receive their training in that cost and a 30% discount on the Training Modules.

Will someone be able to attend [or audit] a Professional Skills Module without doing a practicum project?
No. The nature of this apprenticeship requires full participation.

What about the third level of Anamcara training known as the Master Anamcara?
This final dimension of the Anamcara Project will flow out of the Apprenticeship training. In time we envision the Sacred Art of Living Center as a “think tank” and laboratory for as many practical applications of the Anamcara tradition as there are needs. Eventually some persons will have been trained and want to respond to the call to be an anamcara practitioner. Our dream is that a variety of health care institutions, faith communities, schools and workplaces will be the locus for this work. Together, we have the opportunity to re-create an ancient spiritual wisdom tradition for the needs of our time and communities!

How do the former Sacred Art of Dying “Certificate of Achievement” and “Diploma of Mastery” programs relate to the Anamcara Project?
The Certificate of Achievement and Diploma of Mastery programs are being retired, but we strongly encourage students who are already enrolled in them to finish their work by June 1, 2006 and then become part of the Anamcara Project. Certainly this earlier work could be an important foundation to the Anamcara Apprenticeship track.

Can current or past Mastery/Certificate practicum projects be rolled over to apply to the Anamcara Module requirements?
No. These are two separate programs. We encourage students in the current programs to finish the work they are doing—it has inherent value! The Anamcara Project work will be based on further training and will look quite different from the Certificate/Mastery work.

What is the structure for the supervised internship? Will it entail travel to Bend in between classes?
The structure for the internship revolves around the Circle of Support or 'Celi De' groups which will be clustered geographically - not requiring addition travel to Central Oregon.

If a student has taken all four Sacred Art of Dying units, is there a discount on Practical Skills Module I?
No—only those who have completed the Sacred Art of Living and Dying Diploma of Mastery Program will receive a $150 discount on their first module.

Can current students, with money in the Certificate of Achievement or Diploma of Mastery program roll over all or part of that money into Anamcara Module payments?
No, the two programs are distinct, and need to be thought of as separate programs. SALC will honor our commitment to you as a student in these programs. You must finish your work by June 1, 2006.

How do I ask about other concerns or issues regarding the Anamcara Project?
The best way to initiate communication with the Sacred Art of Living Center is through e-mail on our contact page.

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